The Secret to Great Social Interactions
I titled this "A Secret to Great Social Interactions" because I feel like this is what most people don't look at when it comes to having great social interactions. It actually comes down to knowing what to say or what to do or not do in a given situation, which sounds really simple. As you're listening to this, you're probably thinking, "Oh, well, yeah, totally." We often think the reason we don't do this, or we don't know how to, is because we feel anxious or believe we're dumb or not intelligent enough. We hold various beliefs, but that's really not the case. This became clear to me when I was learning something called pushing hands. It's basically a sensitivity exercise where you have someone pushing on you, and initially, you can even do it with your eyes closed. It's really interesting because it reveals where we hold stiffness in our body. As you learn to relax and allow yourself to move with the push, flowing with your bo...